Truth or Dare: try harder or someone else will

Man: "Let's play truth or dare"

Woman: "I dare you to love me"

Man: "that's not a dare, that;s the Truth"

Dear Ladies,

Have you ever dreamed to have such conversation with your crush, or with the one you love?

If you had, then welcome to the club.

you know, it's sucks when you have to keep questioning whether he's into you or not.

feels like counting the button, he loves me, he loves me not.

Ladies, if only we can play such game and get the answer that we have been waiting for too long.

But, not every woman has the guts to ask that question,

Then what should we do?

Well, Don't wait for love. When the time is right, let it come by itself, shows you that it does exist and worth the wait.

But again,

what about if you had been waiting for too long and he said no words but you find he's about to drag his feet away?

No worry,

I will keep telling this,

If he’s not that into you, then you have move on.

If you’re not important for him then don’t put him as the VIP person for you.

Run for your life, Ladies...

It will be hurt at first a little bit, but you’re so over it.

Sooner or later

If he doesn’t put you at the first place, then he doesn’t worth the wait.

If he wants you,

He has to try harder,

Or someone else will

Value yourself. refuse to be Anyone's dirty little secret

Case 1:
I have been dating a man for some time now. I'm in love with him but he still dates other woman. when we spend time together, he's so nice and loving, but when we're apart it seems like he doesn't care.


Case 2:
Finally, meeting the man of my dream and then...
meeting his beautiful wife.


Ladies, 
have you been in those situation before? or is it happening to you right now?
well, you're not alone dear...
It happens to every woman I know, well...It happens to me as well.
First, I thought i've met the one but then I found out that he's married already. Sucks? hell yeah...
Then, I'm meeting someone and I'm kinda in love with him. But, again, he's still dating his girlfriend.
frustated, confused? For sure,
But I get over it now.
I have to, for the sake of my self.

I refuse to be anyone's dirty little, why? because I'm too fabulous to be anyone's "second choice-last minute-take her for granted-old standby" woman. I'm too great so I should be the "first-place" woman. If he wants me, then he must act.

I refuse to be frustated and confused and being in a crossroad with any man. That's why, If he's still dating with other woman, then I also go seeing other man. 

And the most important thing is, if he shows that I'm no important to him then I also show him that he's no important to me. In summary, I make myself less available to him and date other people. I don't say "yes" that easily whenever if he asked me out to hang out. it's not about being play hard to get but I really want to enjoy my life by refusing to waste my time with the man who doesn't deserve me.
We have a life to live, right ladies?
And yeah...
Because I'm too fabulous for them :)