My Happiness Starts With Me

Ladies, if someone told you that you need to be settled down to be happy. Then, I'll tell you this: that's wrong!
You can be alone and happy and not feeling any lonely.

Well i'm single, I got my own.
But I'm not feeling desperately lonely.
Last night i went out for my routine getaway.


I decided to watch movie, 
I only had a romantic comedy, a drama, an action and a horror movies as the option.
then I choose to watch "New Year's Eve".


In a theater, i saw couples everyone.
You know, watching a romantic comedy with your lover couldn't be any more romantic.
But I stood there, alone
Feeling like shit? 
Hell no, 
Why should I?

I realized that I have two option,
To feel sad and lonely
Or to sit back, relax and enjoy the movie.


I choose the second option,
and I laugh insanely during the movie.
Guess what?
Laughing and enjoying my life is kind of attractive.
Because right after the movie ended,
a guy just flirted at me.
He smiled, then started a conversation.
He offered me a coffee, but unfortunately it's getting late.

Ladies, what should you learn from my story is,
being single doesn't mean you can't be happy.
Because happiness starts with you.
Single and in a relationship are just a titles.
Your heart determines your true relationship status.


I agree with Christopher McCandles (Into the Wild, the movie)
"Happiness only real when shared."
But you have to be happy with yourself first,
then you can share your happiness with others.
You know what? happiness is sort of contagious.
You've got to provide happiness for yourself first 
and then I bet other people want to join your party.


Remember Ladies,
A Happily ever after doesn't start with "I do.."
It starts with YOU.